The problem with you is: You are selfish. All you think about is you, you, you. I will tell you first hand- If a man murdered my family, all of them, and was brought to trial... I would look him in the eyes and tell him that I love him and that I forgave him. That is one of the most extreme things we can do, EVER. But Jesus commands us... Love the Lord your God, and love your neighbor as yourself. Also Bob, Christianity is about submission, like I said... God only sees black and white. In the Bible God says that His ways are higher than our ways. So it doesnt matter whatever you think is right or wrong(because our flesh and blood is ALWAYS wrong), God is always right.. He knows what's best, and nothing less.