i know what you meant by girls wanting to be treated like "one of the guys". a lot of boys consider me to be just like them--one of the guys. im cool with them, theyre kool with me. but being treated like a lady is nice, too. having guys open doors for you and giving you flowers is nice--but for me, when we're alone. like when im out with my boyfriend and his friends, i want to have fun and hang out with them. but when we're on a date or something, i want to be treated like a lady. it gets complicated and confuzzling, doesnt it? yeah, sometimes i dont get it. am i making any sense? i dunno. i guess im just rambling on again about what i think about stuff. oh well... ^^' heart, sj