yea thank you very much for your input......but there are some...new details shall i say. this guy came and hung out w/ me and a couple of my friends and one of his friends. and when he left...he KISSED me. so i was...happily confused...but then started crying because i really realised that hes leaving. so then i found out that hes leaving a day early, and unless i drive ou to see him today, i wont get to see him. so i told him i was coming and seeing him. and he laughed and was like...ok. so i was planning on doing that. until he sent me a message telling me he didnt want me to come see him. he was going to be too stressed and we already said our goodbyes(i...by the way...was saying goodbey in expecting to see him one last time before he left) soo...now hes going to call me because i told him i really needed to talk to him. so lets just say ive not been in a particularly good emotional state......so yea. thats whats going on. just...as an update of sorts i guess.