I definatly think that pornography and pre-marital sex really screws over a lot of american families. I don't belive in an ideal american family or a perfect family because everyone has their problems but these two issue really screw people over big time. First off, if you've had sex with more than one person you have much greater chance of not being as satisfied with sex in a relationship as with someone else. Also sex bonds people together, and it's an amazingly strong bond, and if you've had that bond with someone two years before you marry them, then a couple years into the marriage you start to have problems and difficulties and you don't have that strong sex bond anymore because it weakens over time. With pornography the more you see the more you expect and that's not what sex is about. The majority of guys who look at porno have a less satifiyes sex life than those who never got addicted to it.