Depends are your relationship with your daughter.... my mother couldn\'t say anything to me that i would\'ve listen to because her example to me wasn\'t what she requested me to do. She would live a life of the most disrespectful... ungreatful and distasteful person i know. Yet she would demand me to live to such higher standards. Yet she was completely awful to her mother and the way she lead her life out of church didn\'t make me want to be anything like her. I had to find my reason for being a faithful follower of Christ. My mother was a children\'s pastor and it really alter my prespective of ministry and made me never want to go into it. I\'m not sure you were looking for me to tell you my story... I think that if you guys have a good relationship... sit down and talk about why you have been pushing her so hard to go to church. If you dont... i wouldn\'t push her too hard.. maybe talk to so of her old Christian friends and see if they have any influence. Being the mom and pushing her.. might leave her never wanting to go to church when she is older and its her choice.