Just be there for him. I can\'t imagine finding one of my parents dead. This happened to one of my friends, she and her brother found her mom dead in November. Not only is your fiancee suffering from the grief of a loved one, he is also probably suffering psychologically from finding his father. Other than just being a listening ear, when he wants to talk, don\'t push it you can pray for him. Anger is just one step of the grieving process (I had to do a project on this for psych last semester). Maybe if he really wants to go, than some financial help could be provided, so he can experience it with you. Getting over losing someone takes time and there will be some good days where he seems back to normal and then all of a sudden something could remind him of his father and he could take a step or two backwards. I\'m not a liscensed psychologist so take my advice with a grain of salt if you want. P.S. I\'ll be praying for you and your fiancee that everything will work out. If you ever need to talk, you can PM me.