ok so here\'s the thing-- I do NOT plan on getting married-- and I have more than one reason but only two main reasons. The other thing is, one isn\'t always applied, and the other is, in my opinion, stupid and pointless even though it\'s the number one reason why I don\'t want to get married. I\'ve told all of my close friends this, but my main reason is just so stupid it\'s embarrasing and I refuse to admit it:blush: And b4 u ask, NO it was nothing dramatic or traumatic or anything. I have no good reason why, but it IS the big reason why. And also, besides being embarrased to admit it, I don\'t think they would understand. I told one of my friends who\'s known me since we were in 1/2nd gr summer break and SHE didn\'t understand it. I have one friend that really wants to know why-- but I\'m trying to decide if it\'s bcuz he actually cares or just curiousity bcuz we haven\'t been friends for too long although we\'re becoming close pretty quickly considering we talk to each other every day through IM or w/e. What should I do? Should I tell them and try to explain or just keep it to myself and let it go? And also, is it bad that I resolved to asking this q to ppl who dont know me in reality?