Dump him, dump him fast. Would you stay with a man who hit you? There are somethings that are unforgivable, and audultery is something so terrible it is the only thing that permits divorce according to Jesus. I cannot stand when women stay with men that treat them like crap. He doesn\'t love you, and you may love him, but you must distance yourself from him so that you may not feel sorry for him, and take him back. Do whatever it takes NOT to take him back. If you do not heed this advice, you will learn its validity the hard way, and I would like you to avoid that.