I went through the same thing that you are going through now with 2, the whole college search thing, a couple years ago. Honestly, it sounds like you might be overextending yourself by trying to do too much. Concentrate on school and one or two other things is my advice. I got into college with good grades, decent SAT score, and lots of sports. I played on two soccer teams and volunteered with my local soccer league. If you really want/need a job keep that. I\'m assuming wrestling is important to you to keep that... Colleges admissions people understand that some people may not be as involved in school as others because they HAVE to work or they are too busy with other things. Hope this helps.