I was always being compared to a cousin when I was young. She wasn't worth a fart, though she was efficient and all. Why, you ask? She was always doing rumors, lies, and dirty tricks to relative kids to be the "queen bee". it isn't worth being "queen bee" if a person has to do these things to "keep the position". I stopped thinking about what others thought about me years ago. s you grow older you'll realize that it's not worth trying to keep up with her, or take what people say as gospel truth. Jenna, you have your own personality as well as a life past his relative.