Sweetie, I reared six children. Yes, you read it correctly SIX! Three girls, and three boys. They are all different. So please don't blame it on the hormones! Most of the time it is who they hang out with that is influencing them. Try having a brother/sister day with him and see what you pick up on. Don't do any pointing of fingers or anything like that. Just do the bonding thing. See how he dresses, where he wants to go, how he acts when he runs into some of his friends, etc. If you have negative vibes about these things, then that is when you should worry. But you do need to pray for a protective shield around him 24/7. If you ever need to talk to an adult, I practically live here. www.mypraize.com/Chatmom I am the lead administrator for the site and I am willing to listen. Keyseya and THeMadHatter are adults and both are on staff as well. You can talk freely to them if you need to. Thanks, hope I was helpful! Chatmom