I was wondering if you all could please give me advice on a particular subject that has been going on for months for me. Ok, what happened was I kinda liked this guy in my spanish class last school year, and he wrote something in my yearbook that led me and most of my friends to think that he "liked me" as more than a friend (although I was never real friends with him anyways). I texted him several times last summer (he replied like once or twice) and called him once (I had his number from when I did an improv. with him and this other guy in spanish class last year), but it was very awkward (spelling?) when I called him, 'cause neither of us could seem to think of much to say to the other person. My mom said that I shouldn't really call him or anything 'cause he hasn't really made an effort to contact me at all, and several other people agree with her. However, sometimes (especially today) I feel like I should call him or something and I am confused on what to do! :( Should I contact him or not (I don't usually see him at school anymore and he doesn't live near me at all)? Could God be telling me to call him/contact him in some way? What should I do? Why hasn't he contacted me? Any help would be greatly appreciated! Thanks!

hi. im not sure wat you should do. but maybe you want to contact him so much bcuz you are wanting somthin you cant have. if you guys are meant to talk or watevr it will def. happen. trust me. ive met ppl like that b4.like ill figure that i like them and all of a sudden the next day i'll find out it's my lil sister's,friend's brother(true story). but if you want to call him do it your heart says so. but give it a break if he doesnt answer. dont put your heart or you through that you dont deserve it. and you are very pretty so the guys should be chasin you hun. well i need friends bcuz i am new so request me. if u wanna be friends. or advice buddies:laugh: neway if we never speak again i wish you the best of luck and god bless. luv kc <3 you have just been touched by an angel*

wow that's confusing!!! i honestly have no idea....i would prob. get one of my friends on a 3 way with him....? well good luck!!!! p.s. any1 awho wants to can add me to their buddy list!!!!!;)

Ok, everything you say makes sence, PWND! It is so great having a guy's opinion on this matter too, so thanks for replying! This is what the guy wrote in my yearbook: "Thanks for all the help in Spanish. I love your laugh and you are so nice and sweet. Have a great summer. Make it a good one." The part about being nice and sweet and about loving my laugh is what led me and several of my friends to believe that he liked me (or at least might like me). My friends and I also thought we were seeing other signs that he liked me (like we thought he was staring at me then looking away), so I wrote in his yearbook a little message and told him to call me (I gave him my house and my cell number). I called him once when school had been out for two days, then I texted him quite a few times two, but he never made any effort to contact me himself....:( I totally agree with what you said though, PWND, so I will listen to your advice! Thanks for your help!