[color=#800080][/color] Ok, so theres this guy that I like, Jake. Well he's not exactly thin... is that a problem??? OK anyways, I like him, and I flirt outragously, I think he likes me back but Im not sure. Plus he's big on the Idk u, but we have been friends for like a month... srry for the bad grammer, us calli gals have ta stick togeather right???.... ok moving on. Plus, theres a dance coming up on the 27th. I want to know if he likes me... Signed, In deasprate need of help further known as ME!!!

Why not get to know him better as friends. You will find as you go through school, that friendship is a great way to get to know guys better - the real them. There will be relationships you'll have that are great friendships but nothing more. Instead of assuming you need to jump into a bf/gf relationship, slow down, get to know him. If you want to ask him to the dance as friends do it - but go easy on the flirting.

just get to know him better and then ask further questions you may not want to be to o bold

I agree with politicallyuncorrect, U r waaaay too young to be even thinking about a bf... My advice get to know him first and probly you shouldnt go to the dance with him cause u just met him... I thought u werent looking???

Post edited by: RobM, at: 2006/11/09 22:26

i no you've known him for a month....but i agree. take some time to get to no him better. But if you really like this guy...ask him to go to the dance. as friends that way all pressure is off of both of you and you get to no him better and can just relax and have fun dancing. good luck:side:

I knew the guy i feel in love with for a long time before we ever moved into being more then friends.. about a year of knowing him... then about 6 months where we liked eachother and just invested in getting to know eachother.. then we finally told eachother that we liked eachother... It was all in god's timing. He was my best friend.. and i couldn't have asked for anything better. We went out for a couple months... and then we needed a break so that it would be in god timing that he would bring us together. Its been almost a year... and i still love him.. so waiting for Christ's time.. and letting the friendship develope is key.

Post edited by: sillycharis, at: 2007/01/25 14:01

ASK Him to go with you to the dance. last year i got up the courarge to ask one of my friends to go to a dance with me and he said yes then we started going out so just ask the guy u like

your only a pre-teen, u should wait till your older 2 flirt. though there is a guy i like i dont flirt. not at all. he may feel uncomfortable. thats y i dont. more help with that? comment me.

I think that if this guy likes you, he'll show it. Go to the dance with him. This will give you insight on a couple things: 1) How he may treat you if you were on a real date 2) How he acts around his friends and 3) If he's a good dancer!!! :P But you should definately get to know him better. A month really isn't that long. I knew a guy for 4 months and I still didn't half of him. I know it sounds weird but I didn't know anything about his past. You have to be really careful about that. But anyway, it turned out that it was a guy I didn't really want to go out with anyway. Just be careful with this guy. Another important question to ask yourself: Is he a Christian? Just keep these things in mind. Good luck! I'll be praying for you. Actress_Gurl