[size=5]I have being in a relationship with my boyfriend for 4 years and i moved away for college purposes and he told me that he cheated and we made up and whats not but my cousin whom i live with doesn't approved because he says once a cheater always a cheater.....and my cousin also doesn't want me to be friends with my boyfriend any more or even talk to him and he band my boyfriends from calling back the house and i really love my boyfriend with all my heart and it really hard to let go because he is really a sweet,loving,caring and thoughtful type of guy and he is really sorry for what he did......but i would really love it if i could get some advice and feedback and what should i do in this situation?so what should i do??[/size]

Dump him, dump him fast. Would you stay with a man who hit you? There are somethings that are unforgivable, and audultery is something so terrible it is the only thing that permits divorce according to Jesus. I cannot stand when women stay with men that treat them like crap. He doesn't love you, and you may love him, but you must distance yourself from him so that you may not feel sorry for him, and take him back. Do whatever it takes NOT to take him back. If you do not heed this advice, you will learn its validity the hard way, and I would like you to avoid that.