well........basically ive been having some guy problems lately...basically my bf broke up w/ me about 2 months ago...and a couple weeks ago he asked me back out again...and i thought i'd be ok...but it just got way too stressful to begin w/...and im going into my senior year in HS and i dont need that. and...so i made a bad decision and decided to go out w/ a non-christian...for about 48 hours before it ate away @ me so bad that i was literally shaking and having...some more major health problems because of the stress. and the guy is cool and all...but almost mocking towards my religion. so i am just friends w/ him now...and i guess we're slowly becoming a little more distanced. but now i just met this awesome AWESOME christian guy about 4 days ago....and he is so nice and funny and sweet and...caring i guess...but now the problem is he's gong away to florida...i live in ohio...in 6 days...for college for a year. and i wont get to see him till x-mas break and the next time is next october. so im not sure what to do about it. i think hes really cool...nad i know he likes me......he told me....but i dont know how to leave it w/ him. i dont really want the stress of a relationship right now...or for a while...but i still really like him. so that is how i leave it. i dont know what to do about him....thank you so much if u bothered to read this...i just needed some other input i guess...so thank you. any advice @ all would be helpful.

My advice is DON'T try a long distance thing. It will just make things even more complicated. You can keep in touch with him as friends and get to know eachother better. And pray about it.;) God Bless

Never rush to be in a relationship. Never. Be yourself and wait for a guy to come along who's at the same place, spiritually, that you are, and sweep you off your feet. But definitely pray before you get into a relationship. Never, ever rush. And this is coming from a guy :P .

I think that MisterNathan is right 'cause you shouldn't rush into a relationship. I would pray about your situation and if God reveals to you that you should go out with this guy, THEN DO IT! Just speaking from my perspective, I've heard that long distance relationships almost never work out, but he is only leaving for a year and it sounds like you'll get to see him, so it could work. God Bless you!

yea thank you very much for your input......but there are some...new details shall i say. this guy came and hung out w/ me and a couple of my friends and one of his friends. and when he left...he KISSED me. so i was...happily confused...but then started crying because i really realised that hes leaving. so then i found out that hes leaving a day early, and unless i drive ou to see him today, i wont get to see him. so i told him i was coming and seeing him. and he laughed and was like...ok. so i was planning on doing that. until he sent me a message telling me he didnt want me to come see him. he was going to be too stressed and we already said our goodbyes(i...by the way...was saying goodbey in expecting to see him one last time before he left) soo...now hes going to call me because i told him i really needed to talk to him. so lets just say ive not been in a particularly good emotional state......so yea. thats whats going on. just...as an update of sorts i guess.

yea thank you very much for your input......but there are some...new details shall i say. this guy came and hung out w/ me and a couple of my friends and one of his friends. and when he left...he KISSED me. so i was...happily confused...but then started crying because i really realised that hes leaving. so then i found out that hes leaving a day early, and unless i drive ou to see him today, i wont get to see him. so i told him i was coming and seeing him. and he laughed and was like...ok. so i was planning on doing that. until he sent me a message telling me he didnt want me to come see him. he was going to be too stressed and we already said our goodbyes(i...by the way...was saying goodbey in expecting to see him one last time before he left) soo...now hes going to call me because i told him i really needed to talk to him. so lets just say ive not been in a particularly good emotional state......so yea. thats whats going on. just...as an update of sorts i guess.

Well take if from someone who has been there done that. Never rush into a relationship. I did that way to many times and ended up hurting myself. Wait for God to bring you that someone. If it happens to be this guy great, but if not then you are better off. God knows what you need and he will give that to you in His time. Here is a poem that a friend of mine gave me. Wait for God's Best Everyone longs to give himself to another human being, to have a deep soul relationship with another, to be loved thoroughly and exclusively. But God says to the Christian...---NO, not until you are ready I know you, my child. Until you discover that only in Me lies your satisfaction, you will not be capable of the perfect human relationship I have planned for you. You will never be united with another until you are united with me, exclusive of anyone or anything else. Stop planning, stop wishing, and allow Me to give you the most thrilling plan, one that you cannot imagine. I want you to have the BEST! Please allow me to bring it to you. You must keep watching me, expecting the greatest things, Keep experiencing the satisfaction of knowing that I am, keep learning and listening to the things I tell you. You must wait. Don't be anxious. Don't look around at the things others have gotten or received from Me. You must keep from looking off and away. Look up to Me or you'll miss the things I want to show you and then, when you are ready, I'll surprise you with a love far more wonderful than you would have ever dreamed. You see, until you are ready and until the one I have for you is ready... I am working even this minute to have you both ready at the same time... until you are both exclusively for Me and the life I've prepared for you, you won't be able to experience the love that reflects your relationship with Me -- Perfect Love. Dear one, I want you to have the most wonderful love, I want to experience by the flesh a picture of your relationship with me to enjoy materially and concretely the everlasting union of beauty and perfection and love that I offer you through Myself. Believe, and be satisfied

long distance relitionships are hard. i had one and we lasted 4 8 months befor he decided it wasnt working, were still really great mates and still like each other, but weve both decided to wait and pray to god that something changes. god has the perfect guy out there for you! so just keep praying to god about what he wants you to do with relitionships